Got this email from a friend. This is a really nice email :)
Imagine yourself as the driver in this picture.. you are driving in a 2 way lane without any separator that could protect you if anyone from opposite direction drives recklessly or is having an accident...
So how can you find out when somebody will mess up and put your life in danger?
The answer is, nobody is able find out when and how it will happen...
So what should we do?
Every driver (except for drivers in Indonesia) are carefully trained and examined before they can get a driving license. This is done to protect themselves and to protect others. In other words, when driving, the only thing we can do is to do our best and therefore making ourselves and other people safe. You have utterly no influence to other drivers...
Loving and being loved are surprisingly quite similar to this. There is no way you can predict whether your partner is true to you or not,even the seemingly best people can change too.
In loving, the only thing we can do, or should I say the BEST thing to do is to give our best and to love our partner the best we could. Try your best to understand them and if you can, give them what they want.
"Hold your partner's hand instead of expecting them to hold yours..."
And remember... if your partner does not love you the way you wanted, it doesn't mean that they don't love you with all they have... if you guys have a problem, talk it out, fix it together... from those small things your bond will be stronger day by day...
If you really have done your best and they still leave you, then they did not deserve your love at all...
and believe me, somebody out there deserves your love!
Here is a little something for every soul...
Laugh when you can,
apologize when you should,
and let go of what you can't change.
Kiss slowly,
play hard,
forgive quickly,
take chances,
give everything
and have no regrets.
Life's too short to be anything…but happy...
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